金錢遊戲充斥於世，最常見的場景莫過於投資獲利的推銷。投資本身無罪，賺錢也非惡行，關鍵在於動機，在於建議者與接受者各自的起心動念。

合夥事業多有不歡而散的結局，因為人與人之間的目標、期待與願景往往南轅北轍。

離婚率的持續攀升，不僅反映出對婚姻的不同理解，也凸顯人們對愛情本質的錯位想像。

當我們將希望寄託於外在人事物之上，就如同有靠山的人便放棄奮鬥，有鐵飯碗的人便失去熱情。生命仍在前行，卻少了自己的角色。

有人在退休後持續探索人生價值，有人卻在不再需要工作的那一刻失去了活力。前者回到內在，後者持續外求。

依附，是人類世界隱形的殺手。有多少人不願付出努力，只希望天上掉下金塊，或幸運之神的到來？

 

我對依附的領悟，來自於父親的故事。

他曾是地方知名的醫生，生命幾乎全數奉獻給病人與家人。父親將生活的重心緊緊依附在母親身上。當母親驟然離世，他的精神支柱也隨之倒塌。

孩子們仍在身邊，但他眼神空洞，難以展現半點歡愉，因為他在尋找那份失去的依附。

每當我目睹年老體衰的老人，內心總升起一股清晰的自覺：一切無法自主的處境，都源自長年對他人的依賴。

依附，是一種對生命的誤解，它多半源自成長背景。我的原生家庭給了我滿滿的依附，而我，在一次次橫衝直撞、跌倒後，才逐漸甦醒。

或許，人都需要一段迷失的過往，或長或短，或輕或重。重點不在迷路本身，而在是否願意醒來，走回那條屬於自己的清明之路。

 

你曾幻想過一夜致富嗎？期盼過一勞永逸的劇情嗎？但願我們都能覺悟：生命從不編寫這類劇本。即便出現，也終將歸還，因為那從未真正屬於你。

我們都看過開著千萬跑車的富二代，也曾目睹那些囂張自大的有錢人。這世上，誤解生命價值的人其實不少。

遺產，不知製造了多少人間悲劇。這正是依附心態的寫照：那是我應得的，那些是我該分的。

依附與珍惜之間，往往隔著一道看不見的牆。不是自己努力來的、不費力得到的，人們往往不懂得珍惜。

更遑論那些虛構的經歷與頭銜：從未發生的事被誇大炫耀，根本不存在的成果被描繪得光鮮亮麗。

欺詐而來的愛情與財富，遲早都會見光死。

 

人生的路，是自己走出來的，不是上帝鋪設好的。

人類最習慣依附的對象，終將以無常為結局。它會崩塌、會中斷、會消失，會被奪走，也會被追討。

因為依附的，不會長存；不珍惜的，也不會持久。

靈魂是自己的，身體是自己的，實力是自己的，功夫是自己的。

唯有依附在自身的持續努力，才有屬於自己的價值。

如果你已領悟這條生命法則，那你就得用同樣的邏輯，走出一條屬於自己的健康之路。

 

健康，根植於身體的原始天賦，也仰賴你是否願意謙卑交出掌控權。

你需要努力與身體對話，用心傾聽它的聲音，並給予時間，讓它展現出獨立自主的潛力。

你夢想中的房子與車子，都要靠自己去爭取；同樣，你所期望的健康，也必須靠自己去贏得。

健康的核心，在於身體的平衡力，那是身體對你的深愛。

如何回應這份來自身體的愛，是擁有人身的重要覺醒。

當你能將土地的休耕，比擬為身體暫停食物干擾的狀態，你就會驚覺：健康的本質與生命的真理一致：放下依附，完全交付。

交付給法則，交付給身體，交付給你內在的決心與努力。

 

（要擺脫痛苦，就先讓自己脫離依附。）

 

Love Is Not Attachment (Part II)

The world is awash with money games, and the most common scene is the promotion of profit-making investments. Investing is not a crime, nor is making money inherently evil. The key lies in the intention—both of the one offering the advice and the one accepting it.

Many business partnerships end unhappily because people’s goals, expectations, and visions often diverge widely. The steadily rising divorce rate reflects not only differing understandings of marriage but also the misplaced notions people have about the nature of love.

When we place our hopes in external people or circumstances, we become like someone with a powerful backer who stops striving, or like someone with a secure job who loses all passion. Life continues to move forward, but we are no longer present in it.

Some people continue to seek meaning after retirement; others lose their vitality the moment they no longer need to work. The former turn inward; the latter continue seeking externally. Attachment is the silent killer of human life. How many people refuse to make an effort, hoping instead for gold to fall from the sky or for luck to knock on their door?

My understanding of attachment comes from my father’s story.
He was a well-known local physician who dedicated his entire life to his patients and family. He attached the core of his existence to my mother. When she passed away suddenly, his emotional anchor collapsed along with her.
Though his children were still by his side, his eyes were hollow, incapable of expressing joy, because he was searching for that lost attachment.
Whenever I see elderly people who are frail and powerless, I feel a strong sense of clarity: every condition of helplessness stems from years of dependency on others.

Attachment is a misunderstanding of life, and it often originates in one’s upbringing.
My family of origin gave me a great deal of attachment, and only after many reckless collisions and falls did I begin to awaken.
Perhaps every person needs a period of being lost—some long, some short; some light, some heavy. The point is not the wandering itself, but whether one is willing to wake up and return to a path of clarity that is truly one’s own.

Have you ever fantasized about getting rich overnight? Hoped for a once-and-for-all solution?
Let us hope we can all awaken to this truth: Life never writes such scripts. Even if they appear, they will eventually be taken back—because they were never truly yours.

We’ve all seen wealthy second-generation kids driving luxury sports cars, or witnessed arrogant and entitled rich people. There is no shortage of those who misunderstand the true value of life.
Inheritances have caused countless human tragedies. This is the essence of an attachment mentality: “That’s what I deserve. That’s what I’m entitled to.”
Between attachment and appreciation lies an invisible wall.
People seldom cherish what they did not work for, or what came without effort.

Even more so with fabricated experiences and hollow titles—boasting about things that never happened, glamorizing results that never existed.
Love and wealth built on deception are bound to crumble in daylight.

The path of life is one you carve out yourself—not one laid out by God.
The people and things we are most inclined to cling to will ultimately vanish. They will collapse, be interrupted, disappear, be taken away, or reclaimed.
What is attached to will not endure. What is not cherished will not last.

Your soul is your own. Your body is your own. Your strength is your own. Your discipline is your own.
Only by attaching yourself to sustained self-effort will you cultivate true personal value.
If you’ve realized this law of life, then you must apply the same logic to walk your own path toward health.

Health is rooted in your body’s original intelligence.
It also depends on whether you’re willing to surrender control with humility.
You need to put effort into conversing with your body, to listen intently to its voice, and give it the time it needs to show its capacity for autonomy and healing.

The house and car you dream of must be earned through your own work. Likewise, the health you long for must be won by your own hand.
At the core of health is the body’s ability to self-balance—a profound expression of its love for you.
How you respond to this love from your body is a crucial awakening in the human experience.

When you begin to see letting farmland lie fallow as a metaphor for giving the body a break from food interference, you’ll realize something essential:
The essence of health is aligned with the truth of life—release all attachments and surrender completely.
Surrender to the natural law. Surrender to your body. Surrender to your inner determination and persistent effort.